My 3.5-year-old wanted to build a puzzle. It was a 100-piece puzzle with a 5-year-old age appropriateness. Seemed like a simple enough task, so I got the box and we spread out the pieces. Three seconds later, my son lost interest and thought it was more fun to jump over the pieces than to create the picture we had set out to reconstruct. But I figured I would show him how it was done.
Maybe I'm just dense, or maybe I don't do puzzles enough, but it was tough! I looked for end pieces, and try as I might, there were two pieces I couldn't find (I eventually found them). Then I started into the middle. I tried option after option. Occasionally I would find a connection, but mostly I just grew more frustrated that I could not figure this 5-year-old puzzle out quickly.
When I got about half way done, which took far longer than it should, things started clicking a bit easier. There were less pieces, less options, and it made sense. By the final quarter of the puzzle, I was cruising! I picked up a piece, looked at it, and knew exactly where it went.
The whole experience caused me to stop and think.
My first thought? "I better not let my wife know how long it took me to do this puzzle."
But my second thought was that this is an analogy for many of the challenges in life. We start off struggling. Not making much progress. Not really knowing if we are ever going to get going. But we keep moving forward. Keep trying to put different pieces together to find the right formula. Piece by piece we move forward, sludging along wondering if we'll ever get done. Then... things start to click. It makes more sense. We can see and feel and experience the progress. Until, all of a sudden, we are cruising along, getting results, feeling great. The thing that seemed so difficult a short while ago now seems easy and its actually fun!
Persevering through the struggle is the tough part. But the reward of success is worth it!
Stay the course.